Desperate for a pee

[LynneJ]

me too Sarah! From this point of view they provide so much more of a practical solution !!

[persona-non-grata]

Black jeans are another very practical solution...

[persona-non-grata]

Black jeans are another very practical solution...

[Ady6970]

There was a report in today's Daily Sport (page 11) in which it was claimed that Amy Winehouse held herself during a concert in Essex on Sunday night as though she was bursting to pee. There was even an accompanying photo which I didn't find too convincing. I've seen some of the Sport's own stunnas holding themselves in much more convincing 'need to pee' fashion without that particularly being the intention. Nice story though.

[beautifulgreeneyes]

Going when you don't need to just trains you to need to go more often.

As for the walks back - black jeans!

I always wear short skirts for walks back and like to wet my knickers a bit on the way home. One of these days I'm going to get hubby interested by fully wetting myself and testing his reaction!

[Ady6970]

I'd say go for it - and sooner rather than later.

[VikkiG]

I've been a "lurker" at this forum for a while but this thread made sign up and post!

I think it's wrong to say it's easier for men to pee outside. It's not exactly difficult for us girls especially if youre wearing a skirt. Im sure we can all think of times when we've seen men peeing - its bloody obvious what theyre doing! And I've certainly seen guys penis's when they've been peeing in public after the pubs have closed. But how often have you seen girls peeing? From talking to my female friends, they nearly all pee in public places from time to time, especially after a few drinks. But because we squat down, we are more difficult to spot. And although you might end up flashing a bum cheek, anyone that saw you would be hard pushed to see anymore than that if you're discrete - your clothing obscures the view. (unless your the type to stand with your pants round your ankles while you search your *a**a* for that elusive bit of tissue!).

I hate public loos - they always smell awful and you almost always find the seat sprayyed with the piss (or worse) of the previous 20 people. I tend to wait until I can find a discrete spot out of public view then just pop a quick squat - even in broad daylight you an always find a spot without too much trouble. No queuing, no getting other peoples piss on your butt or your clothes. Much better.

Im ashamed to admit that yes I do have a couple of "weeing places" on a walk from town back to my house.

Why ashamed? Don't all girls have "weeing places"? I've certainly got a few favoured locations. The best is on the walk home from the city centre. There is a side street leading off the main road and just along it there is a small area set back from the road behind the shop on the corner of the main road and the side street. Its where the shop people park and keep there bins. I like it because it's only a minor detour from my walk home from the pubs in town, someone would have to be walking down the side street to see you (and hardly anyone ever does at night), it's light enough that you can see what your doing but not so light that you feel floodlit and its at the point on my walk home that I normally need to have a wee.

I'm obviously not the only person that uses it as theres always at least a couple of puddles and tell-tale tissues by the time I get there.

Would love to hear about other peoples "weeing places".

V.

[firemonkey]

I have a little trouble holding my pee sometimes in the afternoon after a shopping trip and lugging my groceries up the stairs. I looked into it and found a pelvic floor exerciser for sale at my local sex device store, Sensuality Shoppe" in Sebastopol. It's very simple to use and extremely more effective than just pain Kegel squeezes; A stone egg ("crystal"). Mine has a cord on it, but you can get them without for a few dollars less. Silly ne thought I'd have trouble getting it out of my vagina! It's about as big as a hen's egg, but heavier. You place it in the vagina and squeeze the pelvic muscles like you were to use to hold your stream, as you exhale. Inhale, relax and squeeze the set of muscles that lay above where you feel the egg as you exhale. Repeat thses steps as many times as you are able. When you must stop is when your muscles can no longer hold the egg up. Don't try to do this over a tile, slate or cement floor as you may crack your egg. This method of strengthening the pelvic muscles is form ancient China. Any egg made of stone and about the size of a hen's egg will do the trick.

I'm becoming more confident about being able to hold it, AND I get stronger orgasms too. In addition I found some literature about female ejaculation and found I am easy to cum this way, but that often partners think it must be pee, because it really does squirt out. It happens when the G-spot is massaged. For me it happens most when we're going doggy style with my legs very spread apart and my partner rubs me the right way with his pecker. I'd like to try this with another woman, although I don't have a pecker, I imagine a finger or two would do. The ejaculate is more watery than the slippery stuff I get when I'm turned on, but it's not pee, doesn't smell or stain, and it's a little salty and musky all at once.

I'm new to the site. I'm so glad to find it. I'm 52, married for 15 years and bi-curious, so I guess that makes me a virgin. I'm into lipstick and eyeliner, red lace panties, and rather large 40D. I have 2 cats, one very old and getting feeble. I design and write patterns for knitwear at home. Lately I've been spending more time than I should reading lesbian porn and thinking about having sex with another woman. Not sure how to arrange that...tell my husband? Who would want me?

When I was about 12 I used to read the SF Chronicle pink section on Sundays just so I could look through the XXX rated nightclub ads and got turned on by htinking about getting served a drink by a topless waitress, but have not even taken a sexual kiss from a woman.

[Mac]

I've been a "lurker" at this forum for a while but this thread made sign up and post!

I think it's wrong to say it's easier for men to pee outside. It's not exactly difficult for us girls especially if youre wearing a skirt. Im sure we can all think of times when we've seen men peeing - its bloody obvious what theyre doing! And I've certainly seen guys penis's when they've been peeing in public after the pubs have closed. But how often have you seen girls peeing? From talking to my female friends, they nearly all pee in public places from time to time, especially after a few drinks. But because we squat down, we are more difficult to spot. .......

V.

Yes women can be more discrete about it while exposing less.

[Linda1951]

Hi like everyone else we have all had to pee in public places. I feel its the feeling of vunerability when you are squatting down thats is why we hate doing it. The last place I did it was on the way home from a night out in a back ally with a friend but we heard foot steps approaching althpugh no one came into view while we were peeing it makes you feel nervous. As we walked out of the ally a man walked in you could tell by the way he looked at us he was wondering what we had been doing.

[persona-non-grata]

Who would want me?

Why do you worry that nobody would?

[Ady6970]

I think there's somebody for everyone out there in the big wide world.

[firemonkey]

Hi, I'm Firemonkey, and yes I wrote "who would want me?"

I'm 52 and a FF virgin, although I've fantasized about woman on woman since I was a teenager. I'm not sure how to go about arranging to have sex with a woman, and I've been reviewing our craigslist now and then. It seems like most of the posts looking for FF sex are looking for a youngster, or someone thin, or someone with previous experience. I'm not expereinced or thin or as young as they want. I'm married, my husband wants me, and we have great sex. I think perhaps I waited too long to have this awesome experience with another woman.

What do you think? I''m a young looking 52, most everyone, upon meeting me, seems to think I'm in my late thirties or early forties. I have very dark, midlength hair and hazel eyes. I wear lipstick, mascara and some eyeliner on a pretty regular basis. In Europe sizes I'm a 44 or 46. I'm 5'8'' and most of my height is in my legs, which are nicely thick, but with very trim ankles. The torso is short because of scoliosis. Lucky for me people see the long legs and not so much the crooked spine. I shave my legs and trim my pussy hair as needed, wear deodorant and have a pretty pantie collection. I admit, the scoliosis is an issue. I only permit photos taken of me from my left side.

Part of my problem is that I'm never sure when people are coming on to me. My husband; when we got together I had no idea he had the hots for me. I thought he was friendly. Maybe I read too much, maybe I don't interact with people fully. I'm not even sure how I feel about things until I feel them fully, and then sometimes my feelings are a total surprise!

[Ady6970]

True but you're in a marriage relationship with a husband who I'm sure loves you and thinks you're pretty amazing. That's worth a lot in my book. We all have fantasies about different things - in my case largely "toilety" ones. However I think some fantasies are better remaining just that. Even if you feel strongly about the 'woman on woman' thing I really wouldn't advise doing it in practice unless your husband both knows and approves. Even if the opportunity presents itself, it's rarely worth putting a relationship at risk in order to fulfil a fantasy.

[firemonkey]

Thanks sd6970, you sound like a wise woman. I was wondering how to tell him I am Bi. I suppose I can continue with the fantasy of FF.

Must run, gotta pee