im 7 weeks pregnant boyfriend doesnt wont it

[sherry84]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

[Ivan Diederhoff]

Do you want the baby? Have you considered adoption? If both of those options are things you can't live with, you have the child, and take responsibility for your actions. You also make the "bf" live up to his obligations. Babies don't just happen. They don't ask to be born, and they don't get to choose their parents. I might sound harsh, but this is too big a deal to let slide the easy way. Time to make the tough decisions and get on with life, on all counts!

[Goya]

Dear Sherry,
No matter what, keep the baby ...... keep the baby. If you go through abortion it will hunt you till rest of your life.
Take all kinds of "S***" by keeping it but do not abort it. You will be really sorry.

[The Colonel]

View this video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xvshMADC7s0

(Don't worry, it isn't horrid - it doesn't show anything nasty)

It shows an abortion via ultrasound, and the doctor (from the most famous documentary on abortion "The Silent Scream") talks through what is happening.

It all depends on whether you'd be happy with that happening to you.

I wouldn't be.

Also - if he doesn't want a kid and won't support you - he's not worth being with.

I've been married 20 years, and have 4 kids (with another 2 (twins)on the way). This guy clearly won't be like this with you.

My opinion, dump the guy, keep the baby.

NOT the other way around.

[Guest]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

tell him to fu*ck off and tell him you don't need hi stinkin money.

[Guest]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

he should have thougth about that before he got his willy out, thick b*****.

[coolman]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

he should have thougth about that before he got his willy out, thick b*****.

+1. but she should have thought of that before she let him stick his willy into her!

[snappy120_2]

I'm sorry but sometimes abortion is necessary.

If yu do not want this baby... don't have it. If yu grow up resenting the child, it'll be a horrible start to life.
However if yu believe yu can look after it and support it (financially, emotionally) then keep it.
Adoption is also a thought, personally one I would not be able to do.
If you do decide to keep the child claim money from the father and allow him to take part in the childs life.

But use yur brain and wear protection next time. Especially after only 3months

x x x

[Guest]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

he should have thougth about that before he got his willy out, thick b*****.

+1. but she should have thought of that before she let him stick his willy into her!

She's pregnant now and it's her decision and it can be happy one, with or without him. He's laid the cards on the table admitted he can't provide. So she should get out of there while she still can. Good riddance to bad, bad rubbish.

[The Colonel]

I'm sorry but sometimes abortion is necessary.

If yu do not want this baby... don't have it. If yu grow up resenting the child, it'll be a horrible start to life.
However if yu believe yu can look after it and support it (financially, emotionally) then keep it.
Adoption is also a thought, personally one I would not be able to do.
If you do decide to keep the child claim money from the father and allow him to take part in the childs life.

But use yur brain and wear protection next time. Especially after only 3months

x x x

I disagree with the first statement.

There is never a reason to kill a child.

I've also found that most people don't realise what is involved.

Read this:

-- Brenda Pratt Shafer, R.N.

I'm Brenda Pratt Shafer, a Registered Nurse with 13 years of experience. One day in September, 1993, my nursing agency assigned me to work at a Dayton, Ohio, abortion clinic. I had often expressed strong "pro-choice" views to my two teenage daughters, so I thought this assignment would be no problem for me.

But I was wrong. I stood at a doctor's side as he performed the partial-birth abortion procedure-and what I saw is branded forever on my mind.

The mother was six months pregnant. The baby's heartbeat was clearly visible on the ultrasound screen. The doctor went in with forceps and grabbed the baby's legs and pulled them down into the birth canal. Then he delivered the baby's body and the arms-everything but the head. The doctor kept the baby's head just inside the uterus.

The baby's little fingers were clasping and unclasping, and his feet were kicking. Then the doctor stuck the scissors through the back of his head, and the baby's arms jerked out in a flinch; a startle reaction, like a baby does when he thinks that he might fall.

The doctor opened up the scissors, stuck a high-powered suction tube into the opening and sucked the baby's brains out. Now the baby was completely limp.

I never went back to that clinic. But I am still haunted by the face of that little boy-- it was the most perfect, angelic face I have ever seen.

That is the reality. If you do that to a kid - you don't deserve to have them - ever.

[Guest]

In 1993 or 94, then President Bill Clinton signed a bill into law banning partial birth abortions. I think if it is still being practiced, someone need only speak up.

[Ivan Diederhoff]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

he should have thougth about that before he got his willy out, thick b*****.

+1. but she should have thought of that before she let him stick his willy into her!

She's pregnant now and it's her decision and it can be happy one, with or without him. He's laid the cards on the table admitted he can't provide. So she should get out of there while she still can. Good riddance to bad, bad rubbish.

It'll be her decision again, then next time she spreads for a man she isn't married to. What happened to birth control and common sense?

[The Colonel]

In 1993 or 94, then President Bill Clinton signed a bill into law banning partial birth abortions. I think if it is still being practiced, someone need only speak up.

Oddly enough, US laws don't apply in the UK.

[Guest]

im 7 weeks pregnant 23 years old and been with my boyfriend for 3 months (28 years old) i told him i was pregnant and he will not talk about it he has just told me he thinks it would be best to have a abortion but i know i would regret for the rest of my life he just says he is not ready and feels to young to have a family what do i do.?

he should have thougth about that before he got his willy out, thick b*****.

+1. but she should have thought of that before she let him stick his willy into her!

She's pregnant now and it's her decision and it can be happy one, with or without him. He's laid the cards on the table admitted he can't provide. So she should get out of there while she still can. Good riddance to bad, bad rubbish.

It'll be her decision again, then next time she spreads for a man she isn't married to. What happened to birth control and common sense?

But it is now her chance to create a positive out of a negative. Once the negative i.e the guy who put his penis in, is out of the picture, she can enjoy her life as a mother. He can self-destruct on his own or go and fu-ck someone else over and whinge to his mates about how he was trapped.

[The Colonel]

I am suspicious of this thread - since the OP has not responded.