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cant get my dick into her pussy

Postby dick on Mon Jul 04, 2005 1:33 am

My wife is always crying when I put my dick into her pussy. What should I do? She says its too big... is there anyone of making it small enough so she wont scream all the time! :evil:

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Postby littleittybittypritty1 on Mon Jul 04, 2005 7:39 am

LOTS and LOTS of foreplay. Lubrication! and start fingering her to relax and widen her. Don't try to force it until you know that she is wide enough to except you. Just add one finger at a time (gently) until you both think she's ready. And talk to her about it. There is no way to make you smaller but vaginas are elastic they are ment to expand to a certain degree.

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Postby littleittybittypritty1 on Mon Jul 04, 2005 7:39 am

LOTS and LOTS of foreplay. Lubrication! and start fingering her to relax and widen her. Don't try to force it until you know that she is wide enough to except you. Just add one finger at a time (gently) until you both think she's ready. And talk to her about it. There is no way to make you smaller but vaginas are elastic they are ment to expand to a certain degree.

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cant get my dick into her pussy

Postby Whytee on Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:23 am

If she really doesn't want it there, then it's rape.

I suspect that it isn't too big. 'Poke in son's law' states that the vagina expands to fit the object its owner desires. You should try to be desirable.

Don't try to get inside her until she really wants you there. Maybe she has vaginismus. You need to ensure that she is relaxed and isn't scared of you, or 'it'. If she gets worried about it, it will only make things worse. You could try therapy if it becomes a longstanding (no pun intended) problem. It's very unlikely that you or she are abnormally sized, but a therapist could help you to find the reassurance that neither of you have anything physically wrong with you. It's a real mistake to try to increase or reduce the size of whatever nature has given you.

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Postby PussyMouse on Mon Jul 04, 2005 9:37 am

Well, aren't you a lucky man!

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Postby HotSpot on Mon Jul 04, 2005 10:49 am

It could be an infection. Similar thing happened to my wife - she used to find it uncomfortable when I was in her (finger or C***). But after she took a pessary for thruch (even though she had no obvious symptoms) it all cleared up - sex is now pain free, and much more frequent!! :D

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Postby ickle me on Mon Jul 04, 2005 1:15 pm

maybe she just has to try and relax more if she is uptight and expecting it to cause pain then it will cause pain try and relax her by setting the mood a bit of romantic music, some candles even and alot of foreplay why not even try a Lubricant like ky jelly :wink:
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Postby IfIWasARichieGirl on Mon Jul 18, 2005 2:35 am

I had the same problem recently, from the woman's point of view. My lover seemed to big (well, he IS huge) and it hurt me like hell when he tried to enter me. He tole me to relax and trust him, and then with one move he got inside and started moving really slow. After 30 seconds it was great and I screamed for more. It's the entrance to vagina that hurts most, so fingering can hurt even more.
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Postby jimmybob on Sat Nov 17, 2007 3:17 pm

rape? what an idiot, typical american feminist saying its rape then telling you to see a therapist. just relax and all will be well.

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Postby mr incredible on Sat Nov 17, 2007 7:00 pm

lots of lube n masterbation first
on the balance of probabilities its true!!

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Re: cant get my dick into her pussy

Postby Emily B on Sun Dec 30, 2007 9:16 am

dick wrote:My wife is always crying when I put my dick into her pussy. What should I do? She says its too big... i


My husband is still ever so big after years of marriage. So he gets me good and wet before trying his famous moves. Some days I don't wet up, so we use J&J Baby Lotion (it's a mild emulsion - not an oil), and it slips right in, right to the end. What a rush. Even after all these years. Takes my breath away.

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Postby This will work on Mon Dec 31, 2007 4:05 am

dick wrote:wife crying when dick in pussy. What should I do?


besides the 'lube-it-up' part:
*Before*! that:

- Put "Ambesol"(spl?) toothAche topical pain relief all over outside of entrance,
- including area between there & annus.
also on inside rubed around inside 1/2" or so.

even when numb from 1st application; - do it again.
- takes only 5 min or so to work after application.
her best 'wanting to' will likely be 14 days or so after cessation of last menses flow.
also;
unless she is Swallowing Regularly(= daily);
- her neuro-transmitters in brain will NOT be 'programmed' to enjOy fully as possible,
- as They WILL Be if/When she does.
Her willingness to Self Stimulate
(hopefully to cumpletion) for
YOUR Viewing Pleasure ;) is also a
Likely beneficial activity.
-Best done wilst giving your *Daily BJ, - so
she enjOys thie Healthy for her brain activity. Mirrors Often help.

Let us know.

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Postby donte on Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:33 am

tell her to shut the F*** up and act like she is having a baby.

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Postby Guest on Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:36 am

LET ME HAVE A TRY PLEASETHANK YOU.

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Postby Guest on Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:37 am

. wrote:LET ME HAVE A TRY PLEASETHANK YOU.
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