Curious but happy with feminised husband

[Anna67]

Hi,

I've been happily married for about 15 years but have always had fantasies about other girls. About 2 years ago, I caught my husband trying on a pair of my sexiest undies and while initially shocked, it was something we both soon used to our advantage.

He told me this what nit the first time and that he had also tried on my boots recently (a surprise given that his feet are 2 sizes bigger than mine).

Since then, we've developed this into a kind of dress-up game where I 'force' him to dress as a woman and even wear makeup. I'm recently starting to get really turned on by these games as in some way, it helps me live out a fantasy. The sex is absolutely wonderful as well as he gets so hard but because he's playing a submissve role, I always come first.

Outside of the bedroom he i as macho and attarctive as ever, although over the last few months, I've occaisionally dressed him up as a french maid and got him to do much more around the house. He looks so pretty in his lacy white apron!

Has anyone esle gone down this road?

[Sandie]

Have you thought about buying a strap-on to fully play out his fantasy of being a woman???

[Guest]

Get a copmplete transaformation for him and you should go out for dinner wearing similar dresses and high heels.

[Mac]

:D Get a copmplete transaformation for him and you should go out for dinner wearing similar dresses and high heels.

Sounds like a fun thing for you to do. Dress in matching outfits as sisters and go out and see how much fun it can be for both of you.

[Sonia1670]

This is similar to want happened to me about 5 years ago when i came home one day and i caught my husband wearing one of my skirts and tights as he was going about the house. At first i was shocked to and angry but we got over that stage and after lots of heart to heart chats he revealed that he had been a closet cd for many years but he was not gay but had a fetish for wearing womens clothes. i revealed to him i was bi curious.
So we compromised, I helped my husband with his fetish and we go shopping together for outfits, he has an extensive wardrobe of skirts tops dresses lingerie and owns 14 pairs of womens shoes. to start with he dressed when at home only but last year we went a stage further with wigs and makup and he looks really good. We have ventuured out on two occassions once we went for a drive one evening and went into a restaurant for a meal which was very nerve wracking but fun and the other time we went shopping with hubby dressed en femme.
I dont dominated him and force him to dress he does it when he wants too and i support him, it has brought us really close together as not only have i a husband but a girly friend to who is more than willing to do girly things with me.
As for the sexlife it is fantastic with the most outrageous thing we have done is for us both to be dressed in identical french maids outfits then after chasing each other around the house we had the most fantastic sex.
So not all is bad about hubby being a crossdresser if you can accept it and enjoy the new 'girl' friend that you have found within.

[C.C.G.]

This is similar to want happened to me about 5 years ago when i came home one day and i caught my husband wearing one of my skirts and tights as he was going about the house. At first i was shocked to and angry but we got over that stage and after lots of heart to heart chats he revealed that he had been a closet cd for many years but he was not gay but had a fetish for wearing womens clothes. i revealed to him i was bi curious.
So we compromised, I helped my husband with his fetish and we go shopping together for outfits, he has an extensive wardrobe of skirts tops dresses lingerie and owns 14 pairs of womens shoes. to start with he dressed when at home only but last year we went a stage further with wigs and makup and he looks really good. We have ventuured out on two occassions once we went for a drive one evening and went into a restaurant for a meal which was very nerve wracking but fun and the other time we went shopping with hubby dressed en femme.
I dont dominated him and force him to dress he does it when he wants too and i support him, it has brought us really close together as not only have i a husband but a girly friend to who is more than willing to do girly things with me.
As for the sexlife it is fantastic with the most outrageous thing we have done is for us both to be dressed in identical french maids outfits then after chasing each other around the house we had the most fantastic sex.
So not all is bad about hubby being a crossdresser if you can accept it and enjoy the new 'girl' friend that you have found within.

Fantastic, I think that you are really brilliant, and congratulate you on your honest and openness. As you have realised you have actually got the best of everything. I truly wish you well for the future and trust that the sex will remain as good.

[toothpasteman]

I'm half way there - but am quite envious of Anna and Sonia's partners. I have my own silky cammy set - and a selection of knnickers and a few bras. My wife is OK with me wearing them - when she knows we are going to have sex (shame 'cos I'd rather be more impulsive).

I would dearly love to fully dress up with make-up too, but can never see that happening.

I am very heterosexual amd could never contemplate sex with a guy.

Cheers

Toothepasteman

[Guest hubby]

Sounds fantastic. I've always enjoyed dressing up and wish it to become part of our private fun. the key thing is to ensure both parties are happy and that you talk about it openly.

I love the maid outfits and peforming sub to my wife. so far it's only been the two of us, and will always be so, however we do share the fantasy of me serving as a maid for my wife's dinner party with her Fem friends to enable her to live out her fantasy of fem fun.

keep talking, experiment and enjoy

[jinjin]

Have you thought about buying a strap-on to fully play out his fantasy of being a woman???

I have done it. Before I started, I took the precaution of finding out that he could be injured and by heavy thrusting and the torn tissue is prone to infection. So we agreed to draw the line at rough activity because I do not want to go through the experience of taking him to an emergency room.

For ease of maintenance and safety, I cover the strap-on dildo with a non-lubricated condom and use non-spermicidal lubricant.

[Moira Mac]

I'm half way there - but am quite envious of Anna and Sonia's partners. I have my own silky cammy set - and a selection of knnickers and a few bras. My wife is OK with me wearing them - when she knows we are going to have sex (shame 'cos I'd rather be more impulsive).

I would dearly love to fully dress up with make-up too, but can never see that happening.

I am very heterosexual amd could never contemplate sex with a guy.

Cheers

Toothepasteman

Dressing up as a woman does not necessarily have anything to do with being gay! Its just fantasy or roleplay. I've mentioned before I get fun out of dressing up my boyfriend (he would never get away with going round shops or into restuarants, I'm not that good at make up and he is too muscular) He has a few bits and pieces of his own as none of my clothes fit him apart from a couple of light cotton skirts I have that have elasticated waists.

He will be dressed up as a woman, possibly a nurse of some sort, next week, for Halloween. I'll be doing his make up.

I sometimes, although very rarely, wear jeans, I prefer skirts, and sometimes wear one of his shirts, it doesn't make me a lesbian just because I choose to wear some of his clothes. Why should men be classed as gay just because they choose to try out their feminine side. There is a bit of male and female in all of us.

Only once have I worn a full set of his clothes, apart from his jeans which are too big, and it made me feel very close to him (if that is possible) and more deeply passionate when we were out shopping, but he still prefers to have me in my clothes, which I have no problem with.

To me a man being 'feminised' takes a lot more than just literally getting into my knickers and skirts etc and wearing make up.