Sex Tip: How To Get What You Want

by **America'sMan'sMan** on Sun Apr 06, 2008 9:38 pm

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/tips-149.html

yea...I just dont wanna do it...the end...(all sorts of junk come out from their also)...but mainly just dont wanna bother.

by **Cambridge** on Mon Apr 07, 2008 6:17 am

Men do like oral when it is from the girl to him; the other way is not really liked by many... It is not shyness that is causing the trouble.

Where on earth did you hear that? Maybe your boys just don’t like sex in general. :lol:

I can’t keep myself away from it.

you know something everybody is really hard to tell a men's that m not sucsfied, but is very simple to make a men's come's but is reaaly hard to make a women's come's. but the all thing's u can do just try to seat and talk to ya man and tell hw do u feel while ur making love with.

Ya know, Rachel, it would help if…oh, never mind.

by **skeys** on Wed Apr 09, 2008 10:25 am

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/tips-149.html

Wow. I would never continue on with sex if a guy didn't go down on me. I actually did stop it once when the guy said he only did it with women he was seriously dating. So I just put my clothes back on and asked him to leave. If you have to wait several months to go down on your partner, it means you don't enjoy it and I don't want to date you. Ever.

But really, this hasn't been a problem with me and I'm old enough to have had many men in my life. I've only ran into maybe 3 guys who made a big deal about it and i wouldn't have sex with them. BTW, I love giving head so the favor is returned.

Girls, its simple, if its the best way for you to get off, demand it. Why suspend your pleasure while they get theirs? The overwhelming majority of men I date love to do it. Trust me, if no equals no sex from you, they'll do it!

America'sMan, I'm assuming by "junk" you're referring to natural lubrication. So it turns you off when a woman is turned on and gets wet? Wow!

by **emmababe50** on Wed Apr 09, 2008 7:15 pm

jinjin wrote:If uncertain about the odour or taste, one could use fingering to get their partner wet then sniff and taste their fingers.

jesus,that actually made me gag when i read that. surley thats adding extra terror to the situation? just make sure he does it just after you get out of the bath, when its nice n clean

by **Steve2** on Tue Apr 15, 2008 1:32 pm

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There are always two factors for me - hair and smell. If theres no or little hair, the odds of it are about 95%. If the smell is good then its 100% - i'd spend the rest of my life down there doing that. Just love it. But for some girls who for some reason haven't seen the trends of the past 20 or so years of trimming up, theres no chance - its like licking the top of someones head. No joy in that.

by **Goya** on Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:35 pm

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I believe it is not the issue of shyness. It is how a woman’s body feels. The texture, smell, attractiveness etc. If the man does not get the hint and does not do oral, do not push it as there must be something that holds him back. It is the same with women in doing their part. Nothing wrong with either party, just the “Right Chemistry” and no one can do anything about it. So enjoy it when it happens, and do not push it when it does not happen.

by **brunettebimbo** on Mon Jun 02, 2008 10:31 am

I was too lazy to read the other thread so if I have gotton the wrong end of the stick i'm sorry!

My boyfriend has no problem on going down on me.....he would spend all day there!

I always return the favor!

Website · by **jinjin** on Wed Jun 04, 2008 4:25 am

emmababe50 wrote:
jinjin wrote:If uncertain about the odour or taste, one could use fingering to get their partner wet then sniff and taste their fingers.

jesus,that actually made me gag when i read that. surley thats adding extra terror to the situation? just make sure he does it just after you get out of the bath, when its nice n clean

She should not be leading the man on if she is not sure of herself. From your suggestion, I get the impression that she either has a serious problem or she has never enjoyed tasting herself. In either case, I think she has no right to expect oral. She should not expect her partner to taste a part of her body that she has not enjoyed tasting herself.

by **brunettebimbo** on Wed Jun 04, 2008 10:19 am

I taste myself all the time

Nothing better than bouncing on my boyfriends di ck then puttin it in my mouth etc :lol:

by **Angel** on Sat Jul 26, 2008 9:17 am

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it doesn't matter how many hints even telling my man,he just won't do down on me I've waxed made it more desirable but still no luck sex is great but the only foreplay is on his side i've tryed talking about it but he gets very upset and doesn't want to talk about it what do i do pls help!!!

by **Cambridge** on Mon Jul 28, 2008 3:33 am

Angel wrote:You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/tips-149.html

it doesn't matter how many hints even telling my man,he just won't do down on me I've waxed made it more desirable but still no luck sex is great but the only foreplay is on his side i've tryed talking about it but he gets very upset and doesn't want to talk about it what do i do pls help!!!

Hmm.. Is this a life and death situaton? My last SO started out going down with enthusiasm, but after 10 years, the enthusiasm wained. I could either take it as she hated me, or she wasn't fond of the act.

by **TwistedMind** on Wed Jul 30, 2008 7:52 pm

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Between me and my man? I'm much into the oral thing than him, but if has this huge urge to give me one, he does it very well. No argue in that

He does give me once in a while, he does other kinds of foreplay, but I do mind. I love receiving an oral every time we have sex but I'm too shy to tell him.

by **MaxtheGaul** on Wed Jul 30, 2008 11:46 pm

TwistedMind wrote:I love receiving an oral every time we have sex but I'm too shy to tell him.

Tell him, tell him, demand it! You'll be amazed how much he'll appreciate it. Be ready for him when he comes home and before he has a chance to say anything tell him you need him to go down on you - now! You'll never regret it.

by **KLR** on Thu Jul 31, 2008 6:59 am

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my man is desperate to... but the thought just doesn't turn me on! each to their own i guess :]

by **Theresa** on Wed Sep 03, 2008 9:13 am

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Ah, men who refuse to go down on women -- too many of them are still alive, hahaha. Seriously, they aren't refusing it due to any insecurity or shyness; they hate doing it because they can't stand one memory of one unpleasant experience with it ("all women smell bad") or they see photos of shaved models and they think natural women's pubic hair is gross (men TELL me this!), or they honestly believe that since women require more time and focus to get off, it's too much bother. What they don't seem to do is connect the dots in this big picture -- women get frustrated, women stop seeing the men who frustrate them...hello? Anybody home? If you think pleasure a woman is "too much work" or "smells bad" than you're hanging out with the wrong women and you're just plain selfish. Learn to do it and learn to love, guys -- as many of you who refuse to go down on your partner, there are PLENTY of men out there who love doing that for us, and who do you think we'll end up with?