is this inappropriate on his side

[jludvig]

im friends with a guy who and think he has feelings for me but has a gf. Theres been alot of stuff lately him being more full on making jokes im hot, being quite tactile with me, complimenting me alot and noticing little things like the colour of my bra from my bra strap!

Well i was talking to him _ last night i was telling him bout the tattoos and what i fancied having and where he said that would look sexy and how hed find it hard to picture me with clothes on after telling him what i fancied having done.

Is he did seem to be more i dont know sexual in what he was saying like should he be saying stuff like oh im gonnna find it hard picturing u with clothes on now while he has a gf

[Bouncy]

If his comments make you uncomfortable and you want him to stop, tell him so.

[noodles]

If his comments make you uncomfortable and you want him to stop, tell him so.

agreed. ive no idea whats appropriate for you or not but if you dont like it or it feels wrong put a stop to it.

[jludvig]

the thing is he has a gf i like him and dont find inappropriate my side but i do for his gf he shouldnt realy be talking like that towards me

[Bouncy]

the thing is he has a gf i like him and dont find inappropriate my side but i do for his gf he shouldnt realy be talking like that towards me

*sigh* I see we're going to do this the hard way.

So if you're comfortable with him talking to you the way he does, what's the problem?

[jludvig]

hes got a gf i have feelings for him i think he likes me i sense hes acting different but i dont want to be a relationship breaker

[Verve]

Didn’t we help you already… Cleavage honey cleavage.

[Bouncy]

hes got a gf i have feelings for him i think he likes me i sense hes acting different but i dont want to be a relationship breaker

I think your concern for being inappropriate is a little misguided. Look at yourself and decide whether or not yours is. If you're happy with the way you act, go right ahead and continue. If you're not, change something. Don't wait around for someone else to decide.

[Cambridge]

I do think we are gently missing the point. She wants him. Despite all the ambiguities, she wants to be told it’s all, all right.

Honey, if he’s not married and you can steal him away from his gf, go for it. It ain’t a closer if there’s no ring on the finger. If he were married, I’d shoot you before I’d say go for it. But before the ring, it’s an open field. Good luck.

[Bouncy]

I do think we are gently missing the point. She wants him. Despite all the ambiguities, she wants to be told it’s all, all right.

I wasn't missing it, I was dodging it.

It's not up to us to decide what is and isn't appropriate from this guy. It's up to her. I think she's looking for somewhere else to lay the blame should - I mean when - the other girl discovers what they're both up to.

[Verve]

I told the girl to flirt back... She wants him to end it with his girlfriend first. Now, why would he when he has nothing concrete with you? Make the man interested... Then if he won't end it with his woman, you end it. Cleavage woman, for the last time!

[Cambridge]

You guys are the best. I agree with both of you, comme d’habitude

[WhiteTrash]

Cleavage woman, for the last time!