by BritchesAR on Tue Aug 19, 2008 6:35 pm
Newbie,
wow is right, i have not figured out how some questions get replies and others dont. To your point, i have posted 3 messages with no reply and truly i'm looking for help here. After all there are alot of women on this site and i thought surly someone would reply with an opinion. Maybe it's too long to read, who knows.
Anyway, I thought i would give you a man's opinion even though you didnt ask for it. i just didnt want you to feel like i have been feeling, neglected. I feel my wife feels the same as you. You can read my posts as i describe her thoughts as much i can tell.
the female body is without question beautiful and many women have incredible minds as well, so why would you not want to be with another. What i'm finding is when you have kids that the man is left out so often that we (men) forget to do whats important to and for our spouse. The mom is spending 100% taking care of kids, house, etc and the man's just working. Knowing from your past how another women touched you, nurtured you is probably something you are needing now with the crazy life and 2 kids. I'm a man and really my opinion doesnt count but again thought i would post my thoughts for ya. I would investage your feelings, be open with your husband because after all he may be ok with it. It's not something you are deciding to do its a feeling thats very true to you. Good luck and if i can help give you a man's opinion...britchess@att.net. I'm here to learn as well as help if i can.
